Fifty Favorite Memoirs
Several rules: (1) I have listed these books in alphabetical order by the author’s last name, rather than in order of preference—though I’ve marked my ten very favorites with an asterisk. (2) I’ve chosen no more than one book per author. (3) Most of these books were marketed as either memoirs or autobiographies, but I’ve included a few essay collections, graphic novels, and works of cultural criticism if I thought they contained enough autobiographical material to justify it. (4) Because I was in danger of overpopulating this list with (very good) books by former students of mine, I struck them from consideration. —Kevin Brockmeier, August 1, 2021
The Afterlife: A Memoir by Donald Antrim
The Child Poet by Homero Aridjis
I See By My Outfit by Peter S. Beagle
The Boys of My Youth by Jo Ann Beard
Suburban Gospel: A Memoir by Mark Beaver
And Our Faces, My Heart, Brief as Photos by John Berger
Proxies: Essays Near Knowing by Brian Blanchfield
I Remember by Joe Brainard
This Dark World: A Memoir of Salvation Found and Lost by Carolyn S. Briggs
Hermit in Paris: Autobiographical Writings by Italo Calvino
How to Write an Autobiographical Novel: Essays by Alexander Chee
Boy Erased: A Memoir by Garrard Conley
Stop-Time: A Memoir by Frank Conroy
A Life’s Work: On Becoming a Mother by Rachel Cusk
The Motion of Light in Water: Sex and Science Fiction Writing in the East Village, 1957-1965 by Samuel R. Delany
Broken Vessels: Essays by Andre Dubus
Out of Sheer Rage: Wrestling with D. H. Lawrence by Geoff Dyer
Travels with Lizbeth: Three Years on the Road and on the Streets by Lars Eighner
The Unexpected Universe by Loren Eiseley (*)
Blow Your House Down: A Story of Family, Feminism, and Treason by Gina Frangello
Little Labors by Rivka Galchen
Seasonal Associate by Heike Geissler
Bough Down by Karen Green
Mentor: A Memoir by Tom Grimes
Madeleine’s World: A Child’s Journey from Birth to Age Three by Brian Hall (*)
A Sorrow Beyond Dreams by Peter Handke (*)
The Courage of Turtles by Edward Hoagland
All My Cats by Bohumil Hrabal (*)
I Will Not Leave You Comfortless: A Memoir by Jeremy Jackson (*)
Good Talk: A Memoir in Conversations by Mira Jacob
Carry: A Memoir of Survival on Stolen Land by Toni Jensen
Disturbance: Surviving Charlie Hebdo by Philippe Lançon
The Two Kinds of Decay: A Memoir by Sarah Manguso (*)
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination: A Memoir by Elizabeth McCracken
Predator: A Memoir, a Movie, an Obsession by Ander Monson
Essays by Michel de Montaigne (*)
The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson
Never in a Hurry: Essays on People and Places by Naomi Shihab Nye
A Collection of Essays by George Orwell
I’ve Heard the Vultures Singing: Field Notes on Poetry, Illness, and Nature by Lucia Perillo (*)
I Am Sorry to Think I Have Raised a Timid Son by Kent Russell
Argyll: A Memoir by Theodore Sturgeon (*)
Smile by Raina Telgemeier
Blankets by Craig Thompson
Confession by Leo Tolstoy (*)
Picture Cycle by Masha Tupitsyn
A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments by David Foster Wallace
Waiting for God by Simone Weil
Exile in Guyville: How a Punk Rock Faggot Texan Moved to West Hollywood and Refused to Be Shiny and Happy by Dave White
My Bright Abyss: Meditations of a Modern Believer by Christian Wiman